Love is so hard to find...would you agree? Luckily I found it more than 6 years ago..But maintaining it, is also a great task to take in mind. If you are are following this and you agree with it, then it means that you are a sensitive enough lover eager to have a happy relationship till the end of life ;)
Today I came back home as usual and my babe did not get back home yet. I got online to see if his skype was online, and then I assume that he might be having a hard day. I actually noticed it from the phone call I received during lunch break, when he was sharing with me about his frustration about a feng-shui master he previously hired. While having that on mind, I started to prepare dinner, to make sure that everything was ready by the time he gets home. This is how "being a sensitive lover" starts: You know that he/she is having a bad day and would like to create a nice atmosphere once you meet him/her.
He arrives home and you can "notice" his face (you need to be a sensitive person in order to notice something), not sad, not angry, but not lively. While we sit down and have dinner (of course I've already turned on the vocal jazz station that he likes to create a better atmosphere), I try not to pretend to be too happy, but use a caring tone of voice and ask how was his day and try to comforting him while he tells me, after listening for a while I also started to tell him about my day, which wasn't really a great day. But the lesson here would probably be:
-You need to be a sensitive lover to have a smooth and happy relationship
-You need to notice your partner's mood from time to time
-Create a nice atmosphere at home when you are with him/her and when you know that he/she is having a bad day
-Put him/her first before "you" on any conversation when he/she had a bad day
I won't say that I'm a perfect lover, but I do try to do my best to make a perfect relationship. By the end "Love" is about seeing the imperfections of each other and accepting them. But as human as we are, no efforts in relationship might lead to an end.
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